Musings

Sometimes (or most of the time) it's easier to focus on the things you don't like about someone, and forget about the things you do. But we should all have learned the lesson by now, that the easy path never gives us the outcome we want.

And furthermore, if you have a problem that's causing trauma on the inside and spills over into your day to day life--those things can't be dealt with nicely. To make a drastic problem really go away, you must do something drastic to counteract it. You must do something you wouldn't normally do.

It's a lot harder than it sounds.